Resentment is a poison in a healthy partnership. | Nicole Weston Life & Relationship Coach
Becoming a mother changed everything about our relationship. Resentment started to build when I felt like the weight of the family was all on me. It felt wrong to ask for help, yet staying stuck in this inequality only further widened our disconnection. It came down to making BIG shifts in our relationship in regards to our own beliefs and the inner wounds we held.
Becoming a mother changed everything about our relationship. The motherhood experience is hard enough without having to grapple with old beliefs, so it was a relief to find out that we were unintentionally recreating patterns from our pasts. With both of us carrying wounds and old unsupportive beliefs, there were many disagreements over how to parent, work and love. We had to dig deep and make shifts - shifts we both welcomed despite the challenging conversations that came along with them.
As a working and ambitious mother, I started to discover patterns among generations of women who had also experienced resentment. In order to honor my lived experiences, I delved deeper into the inner workings of motherhood and love. By being aware of how the energy flows in my relationship and expanding the familiar frameworks which I already knew well, a significant shift occurred within 24 hours. My determination to evolve led me to unlocking an immense shift within myself. The tremendous transformation that took place taught me that in life, we are capable of so much more than we realize.The willingness to want more must be present.
How do I know if The Mother Wound is playing out in my relationships?
Feeling intense rage, frustration
Never knowing how to ask for help but feeling like they should know
Feeling disappointed and let down
Never feeling satisfied
Doing it all and then expecting the same in return
Never being acknowledged, seen or validated
It is incredible what we can learn and how much we can approach when it comes to understanding our lived experiences. From uncovering the powerful energies between motherhood and love, I was able to make a life-altering shift within one single day. I still grapple with resentment today, but I am mindful of the ways in which my thoughts and perspectives have changed drastically due to this process. The journey is unending and ever-changing, and by joining the Resentment Resolution together we can redefine how we love and mother.
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Nicole Weston | Evolved NLP Practitioner, Life Coach & Motherhood Mentor, Founder of More Than Moms™
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