CAN’T CALL YOUR MOM
You didn't lose yourself.
You're just ready to come home.
I help women heal, integrate, and rebuild their identity after losing their mother — so they can stop carrying it alone and start living fully.
300+ Transformations
QCP™ Practitioner
Somatic Practitioner
Trauma Conscious Coach
14 years
This Is My Story…
I know what it feels like to lose your mom while she was still here and then again in death.
I know the ache of estrangement — of grieving someone who is alive, of mourning a relationship that was complicated and painful and yet still yours. I know the confusion of not being allowed to grieve loudly because she didn't die. Of not being sure your loss even counts.
And then she did die. And I carried both.
If you've lived any version of that — I see you. I am you.
Our Process
Free 20 minute Connection Call
Let’s connect and dive into what you are hoping I can help you with and decide if we are the right fit. By the end of this call we will decide to book a Discovery Session or not.
Start HereWhat happens after the consult?Detailed Discovery Session
This session is a dedicated two-hour session where we slow down together, get to the truth of where you are, and map a clear path forward. You'll have clarity, direction, feel empowered to make the best step for your work when we are complete.
You will finally feel heard
I ask the questions nobody else has thought to ask. You'll articulate things you've been carrying — and feel the weight lift just from saying them out loud.
You'll understand what's actually going on
Together you'll get beneath the surface — identifying the real challenge underneath the grief, the stuck patterns, and where you are right now in your journey.
You'll leave with a clear next step
Nicole will share her honest recommendation for which program or path is the right fit for where you are — so you can make a confident, informed decision about moving forward.
This session counts
Whether or not you continue into a program, this two hours is real work. Women leave this session with more clarity and self-understanding for how to move forward in their life.
I'm a therapist, coach and transformational guide for motherless mothers and I’ve been guiding women for 14 years.
I didn't arrive here polished and healed with a tidy story to tell.
I arrived here because I did the work — the messy, non-linear, ugly-cry-on-the-bathroom-floor kind of work — and I came out the other side with something I didn't expect: myself.
Not the version of myself that needed my mom's approval. Not the version that defined herself by the wound. A new version. A becoming version.
That's what I want for you.
The women I work with are showing up every day for their kids, their families, their lives and carrying a grief that no one around them can see or name. They feel alone in it. They feel like they should be over it. They feel like they've lost not just their mom, but some essential part of who they are.
My work is to help you put that grief down long enough to remember who you are and to step forward into who you are becoming.
This is about being witnessed, being held, and being guided back to yourself.
Welcome. You belong here love and I am honoured to be here with you.
Healing the Root: The Motherless Mothers Signature Program
The journey of motherhood is complex enough, but doing it while navigating the grief of your own mother’s loss—and the "unfinished business" that often remains—can feel like walking through life with an invisible weight.
My Motherless Mothers program is a bold, three-month immersion designed for the woman who is done just "getting by" and is ready to release her pain for good and honour who she is becoming.
Utilizing the Quantum Change Process™ (QCP), we move beyond the limitations of conversation to access the 90% of your experiences held in the unconscious mind. We don't just manage the "grief, anger and mother wounds"; we find the cellular root of the trauma and release it, allowing you to break generational cycles and finally know who you are and how to move forward with peace, comfort and safety.
LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Tune into the Can’t Call Your Mom Podcast
I started this podcast because I was searching for a place I could bring ALL of me. A mom. A wife. A business owner. A motherless mother. A woman who was grieving and ambitious at the same time and felt all the things about both.
I did the deep soul-level work and found an integrated version of myself, of all of me. I’m no longer living in parts, I feel grounded, in it all.
Not healed.
Not transformed.
Grounded in me. The woman I am now and who I am becoming.
THE MOST POPULAR EPISODES
Episode 001
For The Motherless Mother Who Is Finding Her Way Home
Episode 002
The Things We Never Got To Say… A Voicemail to Mom
Episode 003
The Rage No One Talks About After Your Mother Dies
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Live Community Call: She's Dead. Now what? May 21 at 12pm ET
You kept going after she died. You held it together, kept showing up, kept mothering, working, leading. Now you're wondering left who am I now and why does everything still feel so heavy?
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Join the 4 o' Clock Club
What is the 4o’Clock Club? A community of motherless mothers who are living, loving and leading in their life after their mom died. You see my mom called me everyday at 4pm and five years later I still reach for the phone so we can chat. But we can’t because she died. Each week I will send you some love, a new podcast epsiode, thoughts on my mind, insights all in the name of honouring who we were and who we are becoming as motherless mothers. I am honoured you are here.
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Can't Call Your Mom Gathering: In person event
An Intimate Evening for Motherless Mothers in Barrie, Ontario
One evening dedicated to honouring the maternal line and moving grief forward for the woman who is living, loving and leading after losing her mom.
This evening was made for the woman who is doing all of it mothering, leading, building, loving — while carrying a grief that most of the world doesn't have space for.